I would never wish on anyone what I am dealing with now. That being said I wish people would understand that when you are in my situation, you can't live a normal life until things get back to normal. I appreciate people telling me I can come visit to get away for a little while but when you can't afford to put gas in your car, how the hell are you supposed to get away? And if I can't afford to put gas in my car how am I supposed to afford going out to eat or get a couple of drinks when I visit you?